Seeing the "I" and its agenda, we need to face the fact that the ego personality is not the right vehicle for achieving a spiritual relationship. It is a square peg that will never fit into a round hole.... Fortunately, there is another level of relationship that is egoless. We experience it twice in our lives, usually, first when we were very young children and second when we relate to our own young children.
Chopra is always on point. He reminds me often to look at myself from the outside, and to review the meta-observation.
She and I talk about that a lot. It is an intentional ongoing conversation. More will be said here soon.